Because it really is personal…


Happy Birthday #4!
March 31, 2008, 2:46 pm
Filed under: kids, say it isn't so!

You are 9 years old today and I can hardly believe it. Just 2 weeks ago (or so) we called you Marshmallow Baby because you were soft and squishy and O! So sweet!
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You grew and grew but stayed really sweet and for that, I am grateful. From the time you were about a year old, you liked wearing things on your head, and having 3 older brothers made this a possibility, for they always found something for you to put on your head!
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All sorts of things!
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You have a thoughtful side to you as well. You like looking at things and pondering the meaning of it all, at least, that’s what it looks like you’re doing. You always have questions after one of your thoughtful moments, sometimes really interesting ones, sometimes just…well…we wonder what goes on in that noggin of yours sometimes.
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You still have that sheet you’re wrapped up in. You still sleep with it, it still makes you invincible, invulnerable, and is as warm as a mink blanket.

This is YOU on your very first day of Kindergarten! You were so happy!
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And this is YOU on the first day of third grade! You were happy, but too cool for ebullience.
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You were the kid we’ve gotten to apply everything we learned from your brothers. We’ve been much more relaxed with your upbringing, and as a result have had a whole lot of FUN with you. You are masterful at talking us into playing a game, or throwing a ball, or ignoring sound nutritional advice and frying anything we can find for supper. You’ve been able to convince me to buy you a watermelon soda instead of juice, then you turn around and hand me “The Children’s Book of Virtues” and ask for a story from it.

You’ve had the benefit of 5 adoring fans, willing to do anything to make you happy, and somehow managed to come out of it all relatively unspoiled! I don’t know how, but you have no great expectations of getting whatever you want, even tho the rest of us are pretty much willing to give it to you, if you ask.

It hasn’t always been an easy ride. There was that whole skin business when you were litte, hunks of you falling off in the bed at night, the ferocious itching and continual crying, but that got fixed up and you don’t even remember it. There was the move to Statesboro, and no friends to play with, but somehow you took it in stride and what do you know, a friend moved in eventually and now you live in each other’s pockets.

Right now, we’re just enjoying the ride. Life will get tough, it always does, and hopefully we’ve given you the tools you need to endure (and even enjoy) the ride. I know so far, we have!

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Monday, monday, including a melee
March 31, 2008, 11:58 am
Filed under: Monday Melee, family

Later this week #3 and I will be flying to Texas and driving home (in a teeny underpowered truck, with no cruise control and manual transmission. Won’t that be fun!). Sometime this week I’ll be fixing up food for #2 and Sweet Daddio, so I can with good concience leave them to fend for themselves. #4 will be spending time with friends, seeing caves and zoos and all manner of stuff.

I found out yesterday that Grandmother (she’s 95, remember) had a dizzy spell and fell down, cracking her pelvis. Oy. Dad said she’s in excellent spirits, and the folks where she lives are taking good care of her. She says she’s in no pain unless she tries to walk, so it’s The Queen in Her Throne for her, being wheeled to dinner and such. She is mildly embarrassed by all the fuss, and insists that we think nothing of it, because that’s how she’s treating it.

I am looking forward to June. No travel plans, no plans (that I know of) for visitors, just sleeping late and doing housework. I want to get some sewing done, and some vegetable gardening, and some painting (the guest room could use a coat of pale sage green), and some more painting (watercolors) and some writing.

The Monday Melee

1. The Magnificent: Name someone you absolutely adore, and tell us why.
Well, Sweet Daddio, because he’ll tell it like it is and still give me flowers later.

2. The Muddy: Tell us something about life you just don’t “get”.
What’s so all-fired wonderful about YOUTH? I want to be old one day. I hated being young, with all those expectations and all.

3. The Magnetic: Name something or someone good (or bad) you’re drawn to and you just can’t help it. Tell us if you want to change this or not.
Alcohol. I love a good drink, and I’m willing to try any and all variations. I don’t know about changing it, because it doesn’t bother me to be this way. Maybe if it were a compulsion I’d want to change it, but it’s not, so I’m ok with it for now.

4. The Mainstay: Who or what is something you just can’t live without? Why?
Food. I have never actually tried living without it, but I’ve heard that to do so is bad for you.

5. The Masquerade: Tell us something about yourself we wouldn’t already know.
My shoe size is 8 wide.

6. The Mettle: Tell us about a time you showed courage in yourself, or tell us what you wish you had the courage to do
I wish I had the courage to walk into a room full of women and join the fun, but honestly, rooms full of women scare me to bits. One (or maybe 2, if they’re looking friendly) is about all I can handle at a time.



Letters from Walter
March 30, 2008, 6:11 pm
Filed under: Walter's War Stories

Dear Y’all:
Yes it is time to write again, even though I have got little to write about today. So to start with I’ll answer your question as to my name rank, etc. S/sgt Walter Thomas marshall, seriel number (123456 789), should not have spaced the numbers, but I did so to complete the information, 21st photo. Squadron U.S.A.F. The rank shoulder patch is three chevrons up and one rocker down. Maybe that is what you wanted to know. However after we got to China we in the mess section were split up and were just more or less just monitors over the Chinese that were doing the cooking and we never cooked again, just supervised the Chinese. I later was transfered to the 1712th Signal Service Battalion, which was a radar outfit. I stayed in my original mess hall, just drew my pay through the 1712th orderly room. Later on after the atom bomb ended the war I had onough points to come home but the 1712th outfit as a unit weren’t elegible yet to come home so they transferred me to a night fighter squadron, so I could go home as a member of them. I never really knew much about them, because they were based where I had never been, however I only saw one night fighter in action on one occasion, and the plane was in the air, so I was never able to see one on the ground. They flew fighters designated as the P61. Back to my original outfit our outfit flew P38 Lightenings, which were unarmed. The only gun the pilot had was the 45 he carried in a shoulder holster. The P38 was fast enough to normally outrun or out manouver (sp) most of the Zeros that they might encounter. The P38 only carried cameras.

Yes, I knew Charle’s wife was named Dortha, because I found out very quickly when I worked for old Butch. Mrs. Stallings was a good woman to put up with Butch. While I was working for him she was up at four o’clock cooking steak and eggs for us before we went to the feild. That really did hit the spot. However lunch was just a sandwich of cold cuts and luke warm coffee. I’ve never liked even cooled off coffee ever since. I want it just short of boiling. Charles and Dortha came to Denver when the Egypt display was on several years ago. I think it was 1987 the year Bobby died, because he called me and asked if I would meet them in Denver and I told him I would not drive in Denver to see the pope, but I’d meet them in Boulder which I did. We went to a cafe and had a meal together, and a funny thing was the waiters and waitresses were scooting all over the place on roller skates. in the cafe. I haven’t seen or heard from him since, which doesn’t bother me in the least.

You commented about my spelling or the possible use of a dictionary, well I don’t even have a dictionary, so I just try to use my memory as to how to spell.

Well I will close this letter and hope it gets into todays mail. Write when the spirit moves you.

Love,
Walter



Supersonic Saturday
March 30, 2008, 12:16 am
Filed under: Uncategorized

We’re kinda stretching the birthday thing out over the whole weekend. Today we went to the Aviation Museum in Warner Robins and looked at all sorts of airplanes and dioramas with mannequins wearing WW2 uniforms and it got HOT like up to 90 in the blazing sun with precious little shade except for what was under the wings of a Stratofortress. Pictures forthcoming.

But, #4 had a grand time and took a million pictures with his new camera, and got to sit in the cockpits of a couple of fighters and even (like he always does) found another kid to play with for a bit.

While we were gone, Lily (we know it was her for she smells of vanilla) got on the table and ate half of the birthday cake. So I get to make another one tomorrow. She is now at my feet whining *uhn…uuuuuhhn….*

Tomorrow involves a can of shortening and anything that can be fried. #4 has requested fried chicken fingers, fried pickles and fried apples. I’m thinking the apples should fry first, then the chicken, then the pickles. Lest we wind up with pickle flavored apples. It will also involve baking a new cake. Maybe I’ll let #4 help decorate it this time. At least I can reuse the decorations. Too bad I didn’t save the colored frosting that was left. Oh well. Too bad I didn’t leave it on the kitchen table instead of the dining one, where chairs aided Lily in her exercise in gluttony. *uuuhhhnnn*



There now pt 2
March 29, 2008, 11:55 am
Filed under: Uncategorized

Ok! Cuban were made and everyone liked them. SB- I forgot the mustard, but Sweet Daddio took a bite and said “this needs mustard”, and yellow French’s was applied, to everyones satisfaction. It also needed more pickle than I anticipated, but once all those issues were resolved, everyone was happy. Those are some more filling sandwiches, too!

Having said that, I think I prefer a muffaletta, with it’s piquant olive relish and spicy meats. The Cuban was tasty, for sure, but even with mustard and extra pickle it didn’t have quite the *depth* of flavor I like. If I’m going to spend time and money on sandwiches, I want some BANG for mybuck, and the Cuban was more of a muffled POP. ’twas good with a beer, tho, and in an unprecedented move I had *2* beers with mine.

We did linger over them, outside in the evening. Anything tastes good in that enviroment, and we sat round and told jokes and “I can’t believe this happened” stories from work and school. We could have been eating bowls of cheerios and it would have been nice.



There now…
March 28, 2008, 3:13 pm
Filed under: family, food

A pork roast is in the oven, to be turned in to sammiches. Pickles are chilling in the fridge, and I bought some good ham, sliced not-too-thin and some swiss. The KitchenAid workhorse is pounding away on some bread dough for crusty sammich loaves. ok, so it’s not Pan Cubano, but I didn’t feel like waiting til tomorrow for bread, so I’m making something crusty and somewhat dense to approximate it. Cubans, Rootie Style. Since no one in this household has actually had a real Miami Beach Cuban, who’s gonna know it’s not completely authentic? NO ONE! That’s who!

I found this web site called…um…(looking it up)…
3 Guys From Miami and they had all the low-down on
making Cuban sandwiches, including a luscious sounding pork roast recipe which I just *happened* to have the ingredients for, and it is now in the oven causing me all sorts of existential angst about whether it should be shared with the philistines.

Back in a sec, must check the bread dough.

awright. Bread dough is rising. Today is one of the 3 days a year I wish I had 2 ovens. We are going to celebrate #4’s birthday tomorrow, even tho technically it isn’t until Monday. His gifts, however, have arrived and are wrapped, sitting in the fireplace taunting him when he comes into the room. I’ve caught him shaking them a couple of times, and just eyeing them wistfully. So, tomorrow is cake and ice cream, and presents, and Sunday is a trip to the Aviation HIstory museum in Warner-Robins, and the Meal of His Choice. He has asked #3 to make his special Chicken fingers, and I’m not even going to insist we have a vegetable, tho he is very fond of carrots and dip.

Anyway, I am wishing for the second oven right now because I need to bake his cake. He requested a yellow cake with flames on the icing. I bought chocolate sprinkles and dark green sugar, and vanilla wafers and a duo of little plastic army men, and I’m going to come up with some kind of scene of men glaring at each other over cookie baracades. One of the army men has a really ferocious, almost constipated look on his face. Maybe I’ll make a little latrine and sit him in it. #4 would totally get it if I did that, even tho SD would probably feel a moral and adult obligation to disapprove.

I am really looking forward to dinner tonight. I get such a charge out of planning and executing a meal like this, I hope they like it.



March 28, 2008, 11:52 am
Filed under: family, food, friends IRL

I’m not sure what I want to do today. It’s supposed to be warm and gorgeous, so I’m thinking I may walk Lily to Willow Pond. I neglected to see Mrs. B last week, so I should pay her a visit. Mr. W has had to go on oxygen 100% of the time now. He was just using it now and again, but his lung cancer is advancing so he needs it more. Mr W has no family. His only son died last summer, and he has no contact with his son’s ex-wife and her daughter. I asked him if he’d like to move somewhere more familiar, where friends live and all. He said no, that his close friends are all dead now, and he’d rather not have to fool with packing up and moving again. I’m thinking hopefully I can talk #3 into going fishing with Mr W, on the pont that’s part of the Willow pond grounds. They say there’s panfish and bass in that pond. I wonder if the cook would fry up a fish for him.

I’ll probably dust. Maybe. There is a thick yellow blanket of pollen on everything, and it’s only highlighted by those glossy black electronics that Sweet Daddio is fond of.
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One thing I love about the medium oak furniture is that dust really doesn’t show up on it. Since it’s satin finish, I can go…well…WEEKS without dusting before it gets on me nerves enough to do something about it. Soon enough everything will quit blooming and the yellow hue will go away. It is hard to compain too much, tho, it’s dogwoods and azaleas right now, and The Wisteria That Swallowed a Pole. (a pornographic name comes to mind, as nothing is sexier than a rollicking flower-covered vine…all that fecundity!) ok, that little sentence is bound to get some spam in the comment box.

Since it’s Friday, I should cook up something fun and linger-overable. I absolutely love when we sit outside for dinner, and wind up spending 2 hours in the warmth of the evening, laughing and telling jokes. One of our hard and fast dinnertable rules is NO FUSSING. We don’t lecture anyone about grades or behavior, or criticize. It’s a Safe Zone, where anyone, regardless of past actions, can relax and enjoy themselves . Of course, the rules apply to everyone- no criticism, no unkind teasing, no mocking. And dinner should be something tasty and fun, even unredeeming, like pizza, or sticky BBQ ribs or maybe hotdogs and (homemade?) potato chips. We had fish tacos last weekend, or I’d make those. (mmm fish tacos). Maybe I’ll make some kind of kick-ass sandwich, reubens, or Cubans (dare I? all I have is loin, not leg. Would Superbee jeer at me if I did? Would he even need to know?) Hm. the sandwish concept is warming on me. I’m going to have to think about this, check and see if there’s flour in the bin so I could make some bread-rolls. I am going to investigate the Cuban concept, and see what happens.

There. I have a project for the day.



March 27, 2008, 9:26 pm
Filed under: Uncategorized

I’ve just started posting recipes from Grandmother’s notebook over at Rootie’s Kitchen



Walter’s War Stories 1
March 27, 2008, 2:07 pm
Filed under: Walter's War Stories

Dear Y’all,
Well here I go again and I’ll try to answer your questions as best I can. You asked where I saw the pyramids well that is easy, I saw them in the distance while we were going through the Suez canal on shipboard. They were very indistinct but visible. I saw the statue of Christ when we pulled into thedock in Rio de Janerio. I’m not at all sure about the purpose of stopping in Rio, but I assume it was to take on supplies like we did in Trinidad Port of Spain and againn shen we pulled into Cape town South Africa, as well as when we pulled into Diego Suarez Madagascar. The Ship Captian never explained why to us as to why the stops were made. We were on a troop train when we went up into Canada and back down into the states, and we were on a rail line that passed below the Niagra falls. We left the states by way of the New York harbor, and we passes the statue of liberty on our way overseas, plus I got to see it again on our return to the states. As far as that fitting into our duties or objectives, I can see no connection other than getting from point ‘a’ to point ‘b’. That just happened the way it did was merely the route taken. I’m in the processof making a tape that I am giving some coverage to India. Really there is much to tell about India yet little at the same time. I’ll leave that part to what I’ve described in the tape, which I’ll send to you in a few days, I hope. {note…the tapes haven’t been found, but we are looking}

You asked how men were able to carry enough ammunition to be able to supply the many rapid fire weapons well having not been in the infantry I cannot tell youfor certain, but I assume they carried most of their ammo in clips on their belt as well as the bandoliers slung across their shoulders. I know that when I left my base and went on the various trips I always carried a .45 in my shoulder holster as well as a Thompson sub machine gun which I always had loaded with a 50 round drum of .45 shell, out I also carried at least five more 25 round clips on my belt, alond with my canteen and my knife. Now for the infantry men there were details that would bring ammo to the men along the line as often as was needed and was practical to do so. As for my own supply I was assured all I would need, because I was house in either a barracks or in some type of building. The only time I’d be in a trench was during an air raid, which came quite often, day or night. The combat soldiers did not get to stop the war just because it was night. If there was a lull in the fighting they caught as much nap timeas they possibly could any way they could either in a trench or a foxhole or anything they could get reasonably comfortable in. No the war never stopped just because it was night. Usually night action was very scary and intense for everyone concerned, either foe or ally. You just did what you had done the best way you could.

I want to give you one tidbit of information that we were told in boot-camp, was for when you knew or even suspected you were going to be in an upcoming raid was to empty your bladder as quickly as possible because if you were unlucky enough to be close to where the bombs or artillery shell will be falling you could easily be ruptured if you were close enough to the concussion. I am always grateful that I heeded one piece of advice, because when I was blown out of my gun pit I was relatively empty, but I hurt anyway. Well so much for all that.

It has been cloudy off and on all week, with the 2-1/2 inch sleet storm we got, we are getting a little moisture, but it is coming so slow it’s soaking in even before it makes mud. I guess you can see I’ve not mastered this typewriter. I just can’t seem to ever get it to acept the paper straight, but I don’t guess it makes any difference. It all gets on the page.

Walter.

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Walter’s War Stories
March 26, 2008, 7:57 pm
Filed under: Walter's War Stories

My recently deceased grandfather had a brother named Walter, who died last October of bladder cancer. Upon going through Grandad’s effects a couple of weeks ago I came across a big envelope labeled “Walter’s War Stories”. Intrigued, I opened it to find photographs and first-hand accounts of Walter’s years in the military during WW2. I don’t have the photographs, only scans of scans of them, too poor to scan again and post, but wow.

The first page read as follows:
PERSONAL AND WAR MEMOIRS OF
WALTER THOMAS MARSHALL
S/SGT 12-345-678 (obviously, I’m not going to put is real numbers in)

21st Photo Recon. Squadron
14th Air Force
United States Air Force
Commanding Officer
Col. John Foster

Served detatched to 1712th Signal Service Squd
a Radar outfit
18th PID which was a photo intelligence dept

Transferred to a Night Fighter Sqdr
for convenience of the government.
Accumulated points to come home in
a unit that was assigned the next
transport to the States.
This squadron flew P61s

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Uncle Walter was a waist gunner on a B-24 before transferring to the 21st. He was in India, Burma and China during the war, and there is a photograph of him recieving his pilot’s wings from Madame Chaing Kai Shek. From time to time, I am going to post excerpts from his letters to Grandad, where he recounts specific events during the war.

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