Because it really is personal…

The Total Woman by Marabel Morgan

The Spirit Controlled Woman by Bevery LaHaye.

Sex Ed for Christians where I learned God probably disapproves of oral sex.

Fascinating Womanhood where I learned all those clever feminine wiles guarenteed to let me keep my man. *warning* will make you hurl if you in any way identify as anything remotely feminist.

These are the books that formed my views on womanhood, being a wife, all that. Each one has it’s merits, and I am glad I read them before getting married. I can look back at them now and laugh at much of the advice, and understand why Mom put dents in the wall when she threw them across the room.

You can never have too much information, I believe, and if you don’t get the information you need, how can you make an informed decision?

I have no intention of wrapping up in saran, or of subjugating my desires to suit those of my husbands. I am fortunate in that he gets great pleasure in pleasing me, so I don’t feel any guilt in it, and I get a great deal of pleasure out of making him happy…that’s kind of what makes this relationship tick like it does. My method of dealing with the advice I’d been given has been to pick and choose. No saran, no creaming my face every night to stay dewy and youthful, and I’ll figure out for myself what’s proper in the bedroom. If God gave us the imagination then it would be rude not to use it.